Oops

So I'm thinking I'm going at this whole dating thing in reverse. I realize that I have that problem where I think like a guy so I go for what's in the pants first then try to make some sort of relationship out of it. But let's be honest, what goes on in the sheets is extremely important & if you don't have chemistry there then there's no point in trying to start something. And I'm not the type to jump into the sack with any person I haven't at least had a decent conversation with.

But like I said that's a problem. I meet these guys & I think "I could really go for this guy. He's funny, cute, appears to have his shit together. Might as well test drive the car before I buy it" But then I remember the next morning that guys STILL to this day don't think of girls as long term if they put out. And I think it's BS. At least I can say that I don't have one night stands. We call these guys randoms or SQUIRRELS. Because ya never know when you're going to run into them again or even call them up & might as well keep it all friendly as most of us have mutual friends. How else would we have met them right.

But it's so damn frustrating. I'm a nice girl. I've got a good head on my shoulders. I have a good job & I'm pretty responsible. I'm a girl, who for the most part knows what I want. I have a crazy side for sure & I like to party like it's NYE every weekend. So why is it so damn hard to find a guy that's nice. Has a good job, if not a job PERIOD. Knows how to have a good time. Can make me laugh. Can have an intelligent conversation. And knows when to tell my drunk ass that its times to leave the bar. I'm legitimately certain that the guy I'm looking for doesn't exist.

Ok... gotta run. xoxo